Last Reviewed: 20 May 2025
Engaging in enjoyable activities is likely to improve your mood and can help you tolerate negative emotions.
When you notice an urge to engage in a disordered behaviour, it is important to try to delay the urge. Delaying is very important tactic because if you can delay the urge long enough, the urge will decrease in intensity and then pass.
Here is a list of the distracting and pleasant activities that you may like to experiment with.
Listen to music
Do mindfulness exercises or meditation
Go shopping
Call a friend or relative, or connect with friends online
Visit a friend or relative
Go out for a coffee/drink
Sit in a cafe or park
Go to a local tourist attraction
Go to a museum
Engage in a positive online activity
Put on make-up
Redecorate a room
Take a bath or shower
Paint your nails
Put on nice moisturiser/hand cream
Write a journal entry
Read a book
Put on clothes that make you feel good
Make a pot of tea
Plan a holiday
Organise an activity with friends
Make a gift or card for someone
Write incentive cards
Create a music playlist
Enrol in a stretching/gentle yoga class or follow an online stretching video
Go for a drive
Light scented candles
Read the news, or positive and uplifting content
Watch a movie
Write a poem or short story
Go to a bookstore or library
Go for a walk and take photos
Write a letter to a friend
Invite a friend over
Do some gardening
Lie in the sun
Do some painting
Clean the house
Listen to a podcast
Get a massage
Learn a new skill, for example, a new language such as Auslan sign language
Follow an online tutorial or class
If your medical team is happy for you to engage in these activities:
Go for a walk or swim
Go bike riding
Dance!
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